Chapter One: Getting Started Page 2


"Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them."

Orison Swett Marden, 1850-1924, Founder of Success Magazine

Congratulations! You have decided to make physical change to your body. It's the first step in reversing years of negative choices and it's never too late to get started on the Conquer Fat Feel Better plan. I will tell you how I lost over eighty pounds of fat without giving you unrealistic expectations. I say that because every person has different genetics and dispositions. No two people on earth have the exact physiological characteristics.

Each person will respond to CFFB differently. It took me 14 months to lose 85 lbs but it may take you less than six months and for others it may take three or four years. CFFB encourages physical development and transformation at your
own pace.

Health and fitness doesn’t have to be drudgery. CFFB makes fitness fun.
One thing I know: Fitness is Fun. It’s fun when approached at your own pace, choosing which exercises you feel like doing not what others say you must be doing. Personal trainers may be helpful but self-discovery is more exciting.

When you improve your physical appearance you feel better about yourself and the world. It’s fun because the ability to lose weight and gain muscle makes you wonder what else you’re capable of doing in life.

Life is more interesting when you have a heightened sense of well-being. Exercise produces a sense of self-control and confidence. It produces a feeling of being able to conquer the world. Thus the title: Conquer Fat Feel Better.

The Internet and television offer thousands of health and fitness options all claiming to have the ultimate answer. For me it’s confusing and discouraging. I could never decide which plan to go with or which gym to join so I designed my own plan. CFFB is a plan that’s easy to understand and affordable for almost everyone. Once you develop familiarity with exercise you will eventually make personal adjustments and changes to CFFB. Eventually you will increase your intensity for even better results.

The first step is not diet or exercise. Not will-power or getting more sleep. The first step is using the most important organ in the human body. Your mind. Your brain is more important than brawn. Learn to use your mind and you’ll move mountains. You’ll grow in ways you never thought possible. You’ll scale new heights and touch the heavens.


Chapter Two: The First Step
There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. --Anais Nin, writer and diarist

It was an epiphany. A spiritual awakening. The beginning of every great work begins not with muscle or brawn but with the most powerful organ you own.

The most important and powerful organ in the human body is the human brain and with it comes the power of choice. You choose. Only you.

Only you can decide what type of food goes in your mouth. No one, not doctors, family, friends, or anyone who loves you can choose what you put in your mouth. Think for a moment. Who runs your life? Who eats for you? Who exercises for you?

Recognize and embrace your power of intellect and choice. The most empowering tool you own. Once you grasp this idea you’ll conquer fat forever: change your behavior toward food by choosing better nutrition.

Strive for five fruits and vegetables a day. At the grocery store choose fruit rather than ice cream, choose oatmeal rather than sugary boxed cereals, choose vegetables rather than french fries, and choose eggs, fish or chicken rather than red meat.

Make gradual change, go slowly. Purpose in your mind to change your attitude towards food. For example, avoid eating late at night. Make 7:00pm the last meal. Buy a smaller dinner plate, use smaller bowls. Make each meal smaller but be sure to eat at least five or six meals a day. Yes, frequent eating of nutritious calories will help you maintain muscle and burn fat because it heats the metabolism.

DO NOT SEVERLY RESTRICT YOUR CALORIES. A crash diet will never work. If fact, delete the word diet from your vocabulary and you’ll lose fat quicker. The first three letters of diet is die. My advice NEVER DIET. It’s better to eat frequent small meals throughout the day rather than two or three large meals. Frequent nutritious meals will speed up your metabolism and burn fat.

CFFB is about behavioral change not discipline or obedience to slavish workouts or fad diets. Exercise is important but physical change happens faster when your food choices improve first.
Nutrition is key to any fitness goal. You have new skin every 28 days, new organs every year. You are literally what you eat! Feed your body with the best fuel on earth. Whole foods and lean protein. The less processed your food the more healthier you’ll become.


Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life

"If you want your life to be more rewarding, you have to change the way you think."
--Oprah Winfrey, Actress, Producer and Television Host

If you refuse to change the way you think, you will stay fat. Sometimes people overeat when they feel overwhelmed by life. Observe these suggestions and you will eat less junkfood. Here are eight steps in the behavioral change process in reversing obesity and negative thinking:

1. Learn to take responsibility for your life situation and problems instead of blaming others.
2. Become an expert on yourself instead of being an expert on what is wrong with others.
3. Learn to seek and receive appropriate support from others instead of isolating and going it alone.
4. Learn healthy and creative self-expression instead of hiding and suppressing your gifts.
5. Develop effective communication skills for work and relationships.
6. Develop spiritual values and apply them to all areas of your life.
7. Learn to forgive others and also yourself.
8. Learn to receive at least as well as you give.

Once you learn to apply these eight steps your attitude towards food and exercise will change and you will develop a new attitude and the old negative habits will fade away and a new reality will take your life. You will want to eat better nutrition not because you have to but because you want to.

A change in your behavior towards food and exercise is the single most important key to conquering fat. Behavioral change must precede anything else. You are empowered at this moment to improve your lifestyle with a change in your attitude. Yes it’s easier said than done but consider this:

NO ONE CAN CHANGE YOU EXCEPT YOU!
Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
--Michael Jordan, champion athlete

Begin to notice your atmosphere and personal space; reframe or re-adjust your thinking. Are you binge-eating in front of the television? Eating late at night? Skipping breakfast? Stress causing you to overeat? Notice what you eat and when you eat.

As you begin to adjust your thinking about food surround yourself with positive thoughts and ignore negative thoughts and pessimistic people.

Well meaning friends and relatives might not understand your new choices at first so be prepared to avoid their ideas. The human brain is a wonderful tool and through behavioral change you will conquer fat and feel better at any age. Remember, don't allow personal circumstances and negative situations control your emotional well-being.

Take baby steps towards your new attitude towards food; behavioral change won't come overnight. For some people it's a gradual adjustment. For thirty years I made wrong lifestyle choices and perhaps you did too. Focus on the present not the past. Choose to move forward towards a healthier mental outlook on life. Avoid negative thoughts about yourself. The reason you want a better body is to be healthier and feel better about life and perhaps live longer. The time to choose is now. A year from now you’ll be glad you began today.Journaling

One factor that helped me stay accountable is journaling. Writing down the calories, carbs, fats, and proteins of every meal every day. I did this for about six months and it worked. These days it’s easy to do because each item in the grocery store has a nutrition label that breaks down the calories, fat grams and carbs. Not everyone is ready for this idea but bear in mind that it might be an additional tool to keep you on track.

I also keep an exercise journal to track my progress for both weightlifting and aerobic exercises. After a year it’s interesting to see how far you’ve come and how your body responds to certain movements. Give it some thought and try tracking your fitness goals through journaling.

"I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness."
Abraham Maslow
1908-1970, Psychologist

Chapter Three: Application of Principles
Here’s how I conquered 85 lbs of fat. The first step began with a change in my behavior towards food. The second step consuming better nutrition and whole foods and the third step was a gradual and progressive idea to start moving. Yes exercise! The only minimum requirement: Break A Sweat!

Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step. --Martin Luther King, Jr.

Obviously you don’t have to wait to get your nutritional ducks in a row to start exercising. The best time to exercise is anytime. Just take it easy at first and don’t overdo it, ease into it at your own pace and consult your physician. I can remember being wiped out after my first ten minute walk on the CFFB plan. At 243lbs it had been many years since I had engaged in any meaningful fitness program.

Two Principles of CFFB

The Conquer Fat Feel Better plan is based on two simple ideas: Nutrition and Movement.
Like two wheels on a bike you can't have one without the other. Anyone can lose fat but keeping it off permanently is the objective and that takes a change in thinking not just a change in diet. And by the way “diet” is the most overused word in the fitness movement today. It’s a worthless word whether it’s used as a verb or a noun.

Delete the word “diet” from your vocabulary because it’s a killer. The first three letters are die and CFFB is not about diet it’s about a more abundant life. There are too many fad diets in this world, South Beach Diet, Mediterranean Diet, GI Diet, Adkins, and they all might be helpful but the best diet is NO DIET. That’s right, I weigh less because I refuse to diet. In fact I say: eat more weigh less!

I eat 5-8 times a day and enjoy food now more than I ever did as an obese couch potato. So eat up! But eat smart!

The second component of CFFB is “movement” or dare I say—exercise! Exercise has become a negative with some folks and they don't want to hear about it because it implies difficulty, discipline, strain and expensive machines.

Throw out those ideas and reframe your attitude towards exercise just as you did towards food. Get off the couch slowly. Make gradual changes. The CFFB plan is not about six second abs, four week weight loss diets or gaining ten pounds of muscles in five weeks.
CFFB is about preparing yourself for the future. It’s about permanent lifestyle change. Why limit yourself to five weeks? CFFB provides tools for feeling better forever.

Two Tools of CFFB

The two things you’ll need to conquer fat: Walking Shoes and Dumbbells. Simple and basic. I melted 85 lbs of fat using these two tools and were all I used in the beginning. Advertisers won’t like them because they’re not exotic or sexy. But they work and it's affordable for almost everybody.

I took short walks 5-10 minutes carrying a pair of nine pound dumbbells in each hand purchased at Target. After several months I started doing bicep curls and shoulder presses with the dumbbells while doing a morning walk on an empty stomach. 14 months later I was walking four miles a day while lifting 740 reps each session. This routine was usually five days a week and each session lasted 60 minutes. The fat melted away. A lean mean fat burning machine and the two elements were nutrition and movement, preceded with a change in behavior towards food.
Lifting dumbbells and walking at a consistent pace will melt slabs of fat because you're moving all four limbs at the same time and combining resistance in your upper body. That’s my secret. That’s how I did it. I call it the holy grail of exercise. It created a tremendous outlook on life at the start of each new day. I preferred to walk outside in the early morning when the air was fresh and before human activity. 5:00AM was ideal for me. No traffic, no activity, no dust and I got to see the sunrise.

The key to exercise is consistency more important than intensity. It's more important to workout routinely week after week. Maybe the intensity isn't all it could be due to lack of motivation or fatigue from daily life but stick with a consistent plan 3-5 days a week and you will conquer fat and feel better. Remember losing weight safely, one to two pounds a week is best. And remember to eat 5 to 6 times a day, small meals containing lean protein, complex carbs and a fibrous carbs.
What many fitness websites won’t tell you is that it may take several years to experience successful and permanent fat loss. In an immediate push-button fast food culture that’s considered a waste of time. CFFB is about behavioral change followed by nutrition and movement at your own pace. Do this and fitness becomes fun because you see the results in the mirror. My hope is that this information is beneficial for you and let me know your progress at: libertycafe2000@yahoo.com
Below is some additional in-depth material that may help you in your daily routine.

"When you come to a fork in the road, take it."
-- Yogi Berra, Hall of Fame Baseball player in his 1996 address to the graduates of Montclair State University

Walking for fitness: How to trim your waistline, improve your health

Walking is a low-impact exercise with numerous health benefits.

Benefits of walking

Walking for fitness can help you achieve a number of important health benefits. For example, you can:

  • Reduce your risk of a heart attack. Walking keeps your heart healthy by lowering low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol (the "bad" cholesterol) and raising high-density lipoprotein (HDL) cholesterol (the "good" cholesterol). A regular walking program also reduces your risk of developing high blood pressure, a factor that contributes to heart disease.
  • Manage your blood pressure. If you already have high blood pressure, walking can help reduce it.
  • Reduce your risk of developing type 2 diabetes. Regular exercise reduces your risk of developing type 2 diabetes. If you're female, overweight and at a high risk of diabetes, walking can improve your body's ability to process sugar (glucose tolerance).
  • Manage your diabetes. If you already have type 2 diabetes, taking part in a regular walking program can improve your body's ability to process sugar, lower your blood sugar, reduce your risk of heart disease and help you live longer.
  • Manage your weight. Walking burns calories, which can help you manage your weight. For example, middle-aged women who walk more than 10,000 steps a day have lower levels of body fat than do women who are less active.
  • Manage stress and boost your spirits. Going for a brisk walk is a great way to reduce stress. Regular walking also can reduce feelings of depression and anxiety.
  • Stay strong and active. As you get older, walking for physical fitness can prevent falls, help you stay mobile and maintain your independence.

Prepare yourself before each walking session

Take time to prepare yourself to prevent injuries, such as blisters on your feet or muscle pain.

Wear walking shoes and comfortable, protective clothing
Before you set out, be sure to select comfortable footwear. Also dress in loose-fitting, comfortable clothing and in layers if you need to adjust to the temperature. If you walk outside, choose clothes appropriate for the weather. Avoid rubberized materials, as they don't allow perspiration to evaporate. Wear bright colors or reflective tape after dark so that motorists can see you.

Warm up
Spend about five minutes walking slowly to warm up your muscles. You can walk in place if you want. Increase your pace until you feel warm. Warming up your muscles reduces your risk of injury.

Stretch
After warming up, stretch your muscles for about five minutes before walking. Include the calf stretch, quadriceps stretch, hamstring stretch, lower back flexion stretch and chest stretch.